5 Steps to Avoid Investing in the Wrong People

5 Steps to Avoid Investing in the Wrong People

What do you do when you have a customer you just can’t seem to satisfy? Or a team member who seems resistant to coaching? What about someone in a personal relationship who seems to suck the life out of you?

Sometimes it seems feels like the people who demand the most of your time and energy offer the least in return. What can you do about it?


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